Thursday, February 03, 2005

Rape

OK. I think I have responded to all the commentators on the posting of the pornographic pics on one of the website groups I host/own. It seems a MORON that assumed his EX GF had done some real or imagined hurt to him, retaliated by posting pics of her in stages of undress and performing oral sex on him, to a list of over 200 members of the chatroom which they both frequented. It was a reprehensible act.
He violated the trust she placed in him by allowing him to take said photos. It was as heinous as a rape might be. It was not a sexual act. It was one of power and retaliation. It was the act of a coward. I hope she prosecutes him to the fullest extent that the law will allow. I have removed him from said Groups page and reported his actions to the ISP.

I must correct myself. It isn't as heinous as a rape, it is a rape. He, without permission exploited her sexually. He violated her. His was an attempt at degrading her. He is trying to ruin her in the eyes of her friends, family, and acquaintances. The thing he cannot and will not ever understand, it that he cannot change the opinion of those that know and care about her. Those that will allow their opinion to be swayed were not really friends at all. Her family will draw her closer. Her friends will lift her higher. While, he, will be cast down and dejected. He has shown his truest colors.
I hope, in time, that she may, just as foolishly, trust someone else.

1 comment:

Stacey said...

I couldn't agree with you more ... I just wish someone else didn't have to pay the price for his cowardly actions.