Just to add a note here .. I have talked to others that are disbelievers in the power of God, or any supreme being to move on or have impact on an individuals life. I say to them, whether it was the power of an all loving all powerful God or not, it changed my life. Whether it was just me making a subconscious decision and relying on my faith in God as the reason to change or not, is inconsequential. I prayed and I changed. I asked and I received.