Find Something Heavy

The room is full of us 

all looking at the same loss 

from separate places 

Family and friends 

gather to commemorate 

and console our hearts 

offering well-meant words 

“We are thinking about you. 

If there is anything we can do 

just let us know” 

I am trying to fall apart 

and now you want a list 

another task to complete. 

Name the need. 

Work up the nerve. 

Risk being a burden. 

In my grief, 

you’ve given me 

an assignment. 

Identify a problem. 

Think rationally. 

Make a request. 

I know it’s not meant like it sounds 

I have said the same words. 

You know life. 

You know the needs. 

Bring a casserole. 

Mow the yard. 

Take the trash to the curb on trash day. 

Walk the dogs. 

Pick up the groceries. 

Lift the edge of the burden 

and slip a shoulder under it. 

Don't ask what I need. 

Look around. 

Find something heavy. 

Carry it with me. 

© Ron Simpson Jr. 

October 11, 2026