There is nothing quite
like the feeling of belonging.
To find the place where you fit.
Without modifications.
Without adjustments.
It is not as rare as life
would have you believe.
We all spend
a great deal of our lives
trying to fit in.
To be part of the in crowd
or the out crowd,
whichever it may be.
We wear the right clothes.
We eat the right foods.
We frequent the right places.
We adapt.
We change.
We suppress.
We do it all
to sit at the popular kids table.
It began in elementary school
and follows us throughout our lives.
The desire for companionship
is inherent within us all.
We spend our days in places
we have convinced ourselves
that we belong.
But, late at night,
when darkness rules,
and the shadows run long,
we feel it.
It is the undeniable truth
that sometimes we don’t belong.
And perhaps that is not a failure.
Perhaps belonging
was never meant to be earned
through performance.
Perhaps those places
that require our constant adjustment
were never home to begin with.
Real belonging asks for no costume.
It does not demand our silence.
It does not require us
to become less of ourselves
to make others comfortable.
It simply opens the door and says,
“You can come in exactly as you are.”
So, be quirky
be weird
be the odd duck
Where you belong
is looking for you too
Those places exist.
That person exists.
Those people exist.
© Ron Simpson Jr.
October 1, 2026